It really is ok to steer them, but allow it to be a discussion

It really is ok to steer them, but allow it to be a discussion

If you have something this individual has been doing, or perhaps not doing — as you really would like them to choke you, but rather they may be whispering sweet nothings into the ear — it is completely cool to share with them or suggest to them everything you want. With it, that is another conversation you have to have, but a lot of times people just aren’t sure what you might be into, and don’t want to do anything to freaky the first time around if they aren’t comfortable. It makes the whole experience at lot less stressful for both of you when you vocalize these things.

Make every effort to laugh things off

When they can not get it or something like that like that, usually do not place stress to them, as it is only going to make things harder (maybe not in a great way). Continue reading “It really is ok to steer them, but allow it to be a discussion”